Wooing the heart of your ex is not an effortless job. Thousands of guys still find their way back every day. So, prepare yourself to get the love of your life back. If you sit and wait there’s not a lot of chance of seeing it through. You need to do something to get your life back on track!
Don’t lose hope no matter what. Like plants, your lost love must grow roots. You need to nurture your relationship. Never ever dig and see if the seeds underground are actually trying to grow into the plant that you hope it to be. Just know it will grow.
Your ex is thinking about you right now. Although it may sound like it’s not the case, your ex may just be the “too proud to acknowledge it’s true” type of girl. She is thinking about you just the way you are thinking about her. That’s hard to accept, especially when she’s acting tough. Even though your ex girlfriend may possibly play tough on you, it’s not possible she just forgotten about you so fast. It takes time to forget about someone. Sometimes when people are hurt, they say many things they do not actually mean.
Here are some top techniques you can do to get your ex back:
1) Let her know you want her back You need to let it show in the event you want her back. Women like it if men show their love to them. Hiding your true feelings will not do you any good, as women generally speaking have a six sense. Actually they are really great at reading body language and they’ll see right through you. They say love conquers all. No need to feel afraid. You should show that you still care for her. If you can think of any good or positive ideas, try it. There is nobody like her in this world. You made a mistake but now you really know what you want. You want her back into your loving arms.
2) Tell her you love her with all your heart Sometimes when men want to ask a girl something, they do it in a way that makes you think that they would be fine if the answer is no. Often times they put up a wall either because of their ego or fear. For some men, it could be they’re shy.
3) Take advantage of your history with each other Although you and your ex are no longer together, just like any other relationship, you must have had some great memories together. Focus on those good times. It would be extremely wise of you to use the memories to your benefit.
4) Being well groomed for your date is really a must You want to remind her why she fell for you in the first place. Dress sexy and smell great.
5) Be a good friend When she speaks you must listen carefully. Be her friend. There’s nothing more powerful than friendship bringing back together people. Pay attention to every single word she speaks. Don’t think about anything else. It’s important. Maintain your focus. She needs you to be there for her. Don’t let her down, especially not now. That is what friends are for.
6) Don’t be scared Confidence can either drive your ex close to you or further away. You must practice until the confidence is real.
Here are some ways to relax before you start winning your ex back:
1) Go to a day spa If you never visited one, than now’s a good time to drop a visit. You’ll feel calm and relaxed afterwards. You’ll be ready for the big date. Many guys have reported day spas being the best place to unwind when stressed out.
Just relax and leave all your troubles behind. Take advantage of everything they have to offer there: massage, mud bath, the whole package.
2) Visit the gym You’ll really feel better after physical exercise. That is guaranteed as a result of the endorphins released throughout the training. Make a habit of it.
3) Eat well Instead of eating junk food, try paying more attention to your diet and replace them with nutritional food.
What you need to know is that women love being pampered and loved. Just pamper and love your ex.
Remind your ex that you really are that perfect mate that she is looking for. A dirty trick might even be getting some other girl to pay you attention while you are meeting with her. This will make her interested in you as she or he sees other people becoming interested in you first. Make sure both of you have fun.